Sunday, January 23, 2011

WhEn ThE pSycHoloGy iN mE StaRt to Talk....

Ola everyone!! :D

Ok mlm ni x nak ckp pasal episod sedih lagi.. but mlm ni nk cite sikit bab attitude atau dlm erti kata lain perangai :) heeee.. seperti yang kita tau.. first impression is the most important thing ever kan? Macam tu la jugak kejadian yg tejadi mlm smlm..... hehehe... okeh mlm ni nk cerita sikit la pasal apa itu attitude...

Mari kita lihat definasi untuk attitude :-

Predisposition or a tendency to respond positively or negatively towards a certain idea, object, person, or situation. Attitude influences an individual's choice of action, and responses to challenges, incentives, and rewards (together called stimuli). Four major components of attitude are:

(1) Affective: emotions or feelings.
(2) Cognitive: belief or opinions held consciously.
(3) Conative: inclination for action.
(4) Evaluative: positive or negative response to stimuli.

Or in other word yang panjang berjela is….. 

Attitude, in social psychology, a cognition, often with some degree of aversion or attraction (emotional valence), that reflects the classification and evaluation of objects and events. While attitudes logically are hypothetical constructs (i.e., they are inferred but not objectively observable), they are manifested in conscious experience, verbal reports, overt behaviour, and physiological indicators.

The concept of attitude arises from attempts to account for observed regularities in the behaviour of individual persons. For example, one tends to group others into common classes (i.e., all of the people in this room are wearing basketball uniforms). One also classifies objects such as paintings or events such as battles.

The quality of one’s attitudes is judged from the observable, evaluative responses that are made. While one might consult one’s inner experiences as evidence of one’s own attitudes, only public behaviour can receive objective study. For this reason investigators rely heavily on behavioral indexes of attitudes—e.g., on what people say, on how they respond to questionnaires, or on such physiological signs as changes in heart rate. (Haaa this one is more what we usually see la kan... from our first impression to people on how they talk, stand, walk, dress or what ever.. soo if you really want people 2 respect you pls mind your manners cuz first impression is the most important thing in life..) 

ok now kita tgk yg lenlain....

Other investigators hold that one’s attitude toward any category will correlate with how well that category serves one’s own values. For example, a person may be asked to rank specific values such as health, safety, independence, or justice. The person is then asked to estimate the degree to which a particular class (such as politicians, medical doctors, or police) tends to facilitate or impede each value. The sum of the products of these two ratings provides a measure of the individual’s attitude toward the group. Thus, if justice is held in high regard, but the person categorizes politicians as interfering with justice, then the person’s attitude toward that class of people is taken to be negative.

Attitudes are sometimes regarded as underlying predispositions, while opinions are seen as their overt manifestations. A rarer distinction equates attitudes with unconscious and irrational tendencies but equates opinions with conscious and rational activities. Others view attitudes as meaningful and central but consider opinions as more peripheral and inconsequential. A still more popular distinction likens attitudes to matters of taste (e.g., preferences for a certain cuisine or type of music) and opinions to questions of fact (e.g., whether public transportation should be subsidized). (See also taste, criticism, and judgment in aesthetics.)

Some authorities make a critical distinction between attitudes and a number of other related terms. These can be arranged in a hierarchy based on their degree of specificity or exclusiveness. “Values” are said to represent very broad tendencies of this type, “interests” being slightly less inclusive, and “sentiments” narrower still; “attitudes” are viewed as still more narrow predispositions, with “beliefs” and “opinions” being progressively the most specific members of this hierarchy. According to this terminology the difference is one of degree rather than of kind.

Some apply the term “knowledge” to what are held to be certainties and “attitudes” to what is uncertain, even using them to mean “true” and “false” beliefs, respectively. Another suggestion is that attitudes refer to beliefs that impel action while knowledge is more intellectual and passive.
The study of attitude change—that is, the processes by which people acquire new attitudes—has been a major focus of social psychological research since the mid-20th century, and work in this field has led to theoretical developments (e.g., cognitive dissonance) and practical applications (e.g., in politics and advertising).

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Hahaha... sekarang sudah paham? Apa itu attitude :D maka dgn itu  moh ler kita tgk diri kita nilai sesama sendiri attitude apa yg ada dlm diri kita so that we can judge our own self :D hehehe.. ok lah aku pon dah start masuk mode writes block maka dgn itu aku tamatkan sahaja lah kejadian2 yang berlaku semalam :D

Wassalam :)

Friday, January 21, 2011

Entri tidak bertajuk..........

Bila dilihat dari sudut pandang bezanya, mungkin tanpa sedar kita, masa pantas berlalu.. teramat pantas masa itu sampai kita sendiri tak sedar dibuai waktu, terleka oleh sesuatu, ralat oleh tugasan2  itu... lumrah manusia alpa dengan apa yang di kejar hingga satu saat terkedu melihat reality yg dikejar itu tidak membawa suatu erti.. hatta apa yang di kejar itu tidak membawa kebahagian abadi..

Aku melalui masa2  gembira ku, aku juga melalui masa duka aku.. namu itu bukan halangan untuk meneruskan hidup. Biarlah apa pun terjadi, why must you stop to live? Kerana cinta? Keluarga? Kerjaya? Diri sendiri? Hey! Itu semua rubish semata-mata!!

Kalau kau kata kau cinta.. benar kau tau erti cinta itu? Yes love needs sacrifice but what kind of sacrifice yang kau kene buat? Tu yang kau kene tau.. tu yang kau kene nilai betul2.. pengorbanan cinta itu banyak cabangnya, bukan sekadar pada penyerahan ‘itu’ semata-mata...

Aku tau ramai yang bercinta, dan ramai juga melalui sejarah dgn life ‘cinta’ masing2 tak nafi aku pun macam tu sakit perit semua rasa.. tapi bila dilihat balik keadaan dulu dgn skrg? Aku akan kata tidak mengenali cinta itu lebih bermakna jika aku tau peritnya smpai mcm ini.. kalau aku tau aku akan menangis kerana semua ini.. still aku kena hidup walaupun seksa yang teramat sangat yang aku rasa.. sakit sangat2 bila ingat balik benda-benda yang dulu tu.. tapi benda tu sangat ssh utk dilupakan, sgt sakit... dan sekali lagi aku menangis...

Tak tau kenapa mlm ni aku sgt2  mudah mengalirkan air mata.. Hell aku benci perasaan ni.. it’s makes me feel am weak.. still i try my hardest best to be that strong.. fake all those smile cuz i don’t want anyone to know the real thing that happened inside here.. my bad cuz i can’t easily forget those pain..  wondering if that time warp really exist.. i wish i could go back to my past and change everything and wish for not knowing him.. so that i won’t feel this pain and feel this bad..

I'm fighting with myself
Trying to get you out of my head
But I'm hanging on every word you said....